Dear
ladies, have you been crushing on a guy and don't know how to approach
him? After reading this article and viewing the video, you'll know that
there's no shame in asking a guy out.
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Why do ladies feel shy to ask a guy out? You think its only men who
deserve to ask ladies out, do you know there are some shy guys out
there who might like you but don’t know how to approach it and here’s
the shocker you might also like that person but you’re waiting for him
to make the first move.
There’s no shame in asking a guy out, don’t play with your
feelings, what’s the worse that can happen? He turns you down and so,
how many guys have you turned down? Did they die? They moved on right so
you do the same.
Do things that would entice him to you, don’t be the regular girls
he sees out there, be classy, polite, nice, and do nice things for him
also, take him out, buy him little presents, surprise him, spoil him,
men do these things for us, we should reciprocate the gestures.
Before you embark on this mission, make sure he doesn’t have a
girlfriend; I don’t want you wasting your time, alright? Make sure he
doesn’t friendzone/sisterzone you, you need to break out of that shackle
immediately because once he starts seeing you like a sister those
feelings might be hard to reciprocate, find out things he likes, know
his hangout spots, bump into him on occasions, open your mouth and tell
him “Guy I like you, I don’t know where this might lead but I’d like to
give it a trial if you’re willing to”
Don’t let anyone discourage you that it is the sole duty of a man
to ask you out, it doesn’t make you cheap or lose, you just know what
you want and how to get it, some men love women who have this kind of
boldness, they appreciate you and see you as someone who won’t let them
down because your feelings might be higher than theirs.
What are you waiting for? Take that bold step and be happy, and if
it doesn’t work out don’t be discouraged you would definitely find the
right someone someday.
About the Author:
Isabella Ibeji is a relationship and lifestyle writer.